Nicki from Dads On The Air also goes by various names on online gaming websites. She's 49, a cleaner and hates paying Child Support but hang on she doesn't pay child support, her husband does for his kids and she HATES it. She spends most of her days bleating on Dads On The Air forum bitching about Child Support."My husband and I do not have children together between us we field six. I have 4 and he has 2.
We have my youngest living with us She does not receive any CS
She was the result of a short relationship between my Ex husband and my new husband
His 2 live with the ex. He has no contact as he doesn't know where they are.
We pay 27% of his income to support those 2 plus we support my youngest as hubby's income is such that she does not receive a benefit of any type. She's now 17
She made his day on fathers day by sitting up and making him a fathers day card that said how much she cared for him
I have a part-time job and constantly on the lookout for full time work as we certainly do not make ends meet.
I know how hard it is to be a second wife. We also put up with the derogratory attitude of the CSA and we know full well it is not just divorce that has made such an agency
I have been told that I steal from his children, that I am lazy and should get a job ( I was working 3 just to pay out her fraudulent claim) and one even told me I should leave my man so he can pay more to his kids
I was told it was our fault because we chose not to have more children. we could have had a reduction if we did. It's enough of a struggle to put food on the table for the one we do have here let alone another mouth to feed.
I dont mind paying for his kids I just resent knowing she's sitting there getting a Government payment (That we partially fund with taxes) then we pay CS and she gets all the benefits. "
